This post is about Dumbledore's favorite solution: Love.
Do u really believe ther is something called love? or is it only a concept like ether?
I really dont believe that there is someone made for you.. decided in the heaven..
Its just our aquaintances and our preferences that make us feel that we are in love.
And I am not just talking about opposite sexes. Its love for everything.
Your parents, you food, your clothes, your country..
Whenever you cannot justify that your preferences are more correct than others, then you got to know that something is wrong..
I would love to touch each topic, but I am afraid that would make this post a redundant and monotonous one. Still...
Parents: Nearly everybody's love them from the bottom of their heart.. so who wins? they say there is no win/loss in love.. if there is a thing called love.. why are we scared to quantify it?
if our love for god can be quantified and religions can easily claim others as infidels.. we arent we touching base upon this subject as well?
You just love your native place, home made food, clothes that you are familiar with..
so finally according to me as of now, love is nothing but comfort.. and this comfort rises out of constant aquaintance...
now the big thing: opposite (or same) sex love as we know it..
a guy meets a girls.. falls in love.. but why? and more importantly how?
our brain is really a fantastic thing..
IT ALWAYS TRIES TO COMAPARE NEEDS WITH THE OFFERINGS AND SETTLE THE REMAINING AS HOPE..
so the moment you see a girl satisfying 80% of your needs, you make yourself understand that someday the 20% would follow.. interesting theory .. but true..
many people in india dont eat non veg foods, and wanna live with their family traditions all their life.. no wonder i rarely see them around with a hot chick having non veg (because they cant introduce her to their parents)..
so next time you fall in love as i will also do.. just remember that marriages are not made in heaven unless you fondly call your brain by the name of 'heaven'...
1 comment:
hey nice post.. but i would like to disagree with you on that.. i dont think it is just the "comfort" or the "hope for next 20%"... it is more than that... it is the sixth sense.. it is something that is very difficult to justify or quantify...
When u visit a place and you just love it... then what would u say.. is the "comfort zone"... (definitely not)... or is it the "excitement of exploring the unknown"... !!
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